Sunday, February 26, 2006
I heard something interesting on the radio, that says sadness can be seen as a good thing sometimes.
Sadness or grief stays with someone longer than happiness.
It reflects what you really want in this life or what you do not want.
It allows you to rflect on yourself what is the meaning of life.
Do not let it affect you, allow it to motivate you to move forward.
I guess its really hard to "hua bei fen wei li liang". I myself sometimes find it real hard to pick myself up when I am down. Though I very much believe we should not turn our heads down in times of challenge or aversity. If everday your life is a sunny day, soon your life will become a dessert, bored with no meaning of life. Sometimes a bit of rainy daes is needed to form those little drops of trouble waters to make up what we call life. Hahah its really weird for me to say all these when the dae when rain pours on me again, I will be so damned that why is it happening to me again. Who would not want a smooth sailing happy life, but circumstances and fate would not allow it to be so. Sooner or later unfortunate events hit you, so you can fall down, learn from it, pick yourself up and start anew again. I am still facing minor hicups in my working life, my relationship and everyday life. Sometimes I wish to just give up, or rather ask myself what is all these I am bearing with, is it worth it? the answer lies with the motivation and reason in starting with whatever task or realtionship with anything and anyone. Since we have chose to do something or be with someone, we got to try our best and keep it going till the day the other party gives up on you. In a way never regret, never give up.
Not that I am facing a downhill life now, in fact my life is going well, not that bad. But its at times like these where you still have the energy to remind yourself that to appreaciate what you have and not take things for granted. I am still learning, everydae. Maybe when there come a dae when I fell down and I have no one to turn to, I can come and read this entry and tell myself, come on, the road is still long, be thankful of whatever blessings around you, pick yourself up and lets move on.