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Saturday, January 28, 2006
This post is dedicated to my friend Angeline. Its not been long since I last saw her, but she din look as carefree as before. She was the happiest friend I ever had, and theres nothing more than I want to see her happy(sounds funny, as if I like her). Hmm what I meant is whenever I feel down in school sometimes, seeing her will chase the worries and sadness away. Projects with her was never dull. Her smile has that power. I wana see that smile again.

But from her blog, it seems that she aint as happy as before. Money indeed cannot buy happiness, for all of us all owned more money than we were kids. Yes indeed when we were still schooling, we were still sort of like kids. No worries as to how the next dae will turn out, bad results will go away. The worse is failing a subject where you can take again next sem. A life without worrying bout tomorrow, you are still a kid (though many would probably argue at 21 how can you be a kid). Not that we have to worry alot now bout how to raise or support a family, but there are things you have to worry. And worrying bout and thinking bout such things do make us unhappy. Very unhappy. I dun deny I am much of a thinker. I think too much. I worry a lot. Thats why sometimes I am unhappy. I realized I am very happy when I dun think. Though when that happens, I say and do stupid things. But who cares, happiness is always all important.

Dear Angie, believe in yourself that you can do it. You will attain all sales figure you wish to attain. If you think you are up to it, anything is possible. At least I believe in you. Like you say, life is only spent once. Lets make it a happy one.

You cannot control the length of your life,
but you can control its width and depth.

You cannot control the contour of your countenance,
but you can control its expression.

You cannot control the other person's opportunities,
but you can grasp your own.

You cannot control the weather,
but you can control the moral atmosphere which surrounds you.

You cannot control other person's faults,
but you can see to it that you yourself dun develop or harbour provoking propensities.

You cannot control the other people's feelings,
but you can make sure you are true those you love.

Why worry bout things you cannot control?
Get busy controlling the things that depend on you!
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