Tuesday, September 05, 2006
Take my hand, bring me out of here... - 9:08 PM
"Take my hand, bring me out of here." This seems to be a romantic line that a going to-be bride saying to some guy, to take her hand and run out of the church, away from someone she do not want to marry. But in life, I guess thats a line everyone longs to say, to say to someone who can save them out of their pain or misery.More ofthen than not, most of us face troubles from all sources.
Some of us can't stand being in the sucky relationship. We have a unreasonable partner, who cant seem to know what we want(or rather what they want). Sometimes it seems that your partner isnt good enough, pretty or handsome enough, or worse still, rich enough.
For those looking to start a relationship, it seems, you cant seem to find someone right. Read something from my friend's blog. It goes something like this:
Either he is not handsome enough, or if he is, not rich enough. If he is handsome and rich, he is attached. If he is not attached, he has a lousy personailty. If he possess all the above qualities, he is a gay.
Haha what i think? Ok, maybe not a gay. He is god. Come on, we are not God, no guy is perfect. Nobody is.
For those in a sucky job(most of us is), do you wish to just shout out loud everytime your desk is piled up with work? When your boss is simply unreasonable or nasty to you. Or a stupid customer comes in and complain your job away. We have so much things to do each day, and yet we are faced with external factors that makes us stay back late at night in the office, without dinner. Afterwhich, if you have to take a long train ride back. Worse on top of worse.
So what do we do? What can we do? There is no one who can rescue you.
Some of us choose to adopt the positive attitude and be super happy and smile all the way. But when you cant take it anymore sometimes and frown, people ask whats wrong with you. Worse, they said you have changed. Worse still, you are tempremental.
Some take extreme approach and live in a world they create in. The world only contains nice people. If there are no nice people, they conjur them up. We refer to these people as psychotic. Ok just kidding. They are just idealistic. I do this sometimes, just sometimes.
Some take the practical way out things. Relationship sucks? Get out of it and find a new one. Work sucks? Get out of it and find a new one. Life sucks? Well, if you dare, get out of it and find a new one.(Better find WHETHER there is a next life before you do try. Personally I dun think its worth it)HAha. Well you cant just keep continuing to do that. YOu basically just get out from one shit hole into the other. Ok lets not be so pessimistic. You get out from one shit hole into a better shit hole. Haha ok, some of us do find better life after we dare to change. But we need to know one thing before that may happen.
Why are we often in mess? Its because we do not understand why we got into the mess the previous round and we keep getting into the same mess. Its human nature to blame something or someone when things goes wrong. One must learn not to blame anyone or anything. We must find the root cause of why things go wrong, instead of going around blaming anyone, or pushing issues to others. Only when we know whats wrong, we change. We take a more pragmatic approach and choose our new routes if neccessary. Otherwise its just shithole to shithole, till a knight in shiny armour comes along and save you (If he doesnt think you are smelly).
Well, easier than said. Who can overcome human nature. Who can live life to the fullest. Who can be happy everydae? Haha. So who can come and save me?