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Saturday, January 28, 2006
This post is dedicated to my friend Angeline. Its not been long since I last saw her, but she din look as carefree as before. She was the happiest friend I ever had, and theres nothing more than I want to see her happy(sounds funny, as if I like her). Hmm what I meant is whenever I feel down in school sometimes, seeing her will chase the worries and sadness away. Projects with her was never dull. Her smile has that power. I wana see that smile again.

But from her blog, it seems that she aint as happy as before. Money indeed cannot buy happiness, for all of us all owned more money than we were kids. Yes indeed when we were still schooling, we were still sort of like kids. No worries as to how the next dae will turn out, bad results will go away. The worse is failing a subject where you can take again next sem. A life without worrying bout tomorrow, you are still a kid (though many would probably argue at 21 how can you be a kid). Not that we have to worry alot now bout how to raise or support a family, but there are things you have to worry. And worrying bout and thinking bout such things do make us unhappy. Very unhappy. I dun deny I am much of a thinker. I think too much. I worry a lot. Thats why sometimes I am unhappy. I realized I am very happy when I dun think. Though when that happens, I say and do stupid things. But who cares, happiness is always all important.

Dear Angie, believe in yourself that you can do it. You will attain all sales figure you wish to attain. If you think you are up to it, anything is possible. At least I believe in you. Like you say, life is only spent once. Lets make it a happy one.

You cannot control the length of your life,
but you can control its width and depth.

You cannot control the contour of your countenance,
but you can control its expression.

You cannot control the other person's opportunities,
but you can grasp your own.

You cannot control the weather,
but you can control the moral atmosphere which surrounds you.

You cannot control other person's faults,
but you can see to it that you yourself dun develop or harbour provoking propensities.

You cannot control the other people's feelings,
but you can make sure you are true those you love.

Why worry bout things you cannot control?
Get busy controlling the things that depend on you!
Thursday, January 19, 2006
A few things to note. Really glad I made my way to a gym, never dissapoint myself. Will try again this weekend. Hhaha hope my new year resolution lasts...

One of the best things in life are your friends around you. They are there when you need them, they share your joy and sorrows, they support you and they are always there for you. You in turn can do wonderful things for your friends, seeing happiness on their faces will bring a smile to yours too. I love the comedy "Friends" a lot. I love the comic "One piece King" alot. Besides both being super funny, the concept of going through thick and thin with your friends and "I will be there for you" really makes me think a world without friends would be so lonely.

To all my friends, let me borrow this:
I wish you peace, I wish you happiness,
and most of all, I wish you,
LOVE.
Thursday, January 12, 2006
I never really knew my blog has such a wide coverage till people I dunoe starts leaving strange comments. The most recent directing us to a sleazy blog, hahah so better dun go there ah. But of coz it always feel great to have some interesting people who are serious about reading your blog like the forest ranger in US.

It has been raining dae and night these few daes. The weather feels cold and it has brought much inconvinence when travelling around. But it does makes sleeping at night better and this cool weather really makes one happy at times.

What a boring entry todae.. haha also dunoe why I wrote this. Keep watching TV while writing this, guess will stop here.
Sunday, January 08, 2006
Attended a ROM and baby's 1st yr old birthdae together yesterdae. Thought I wld really get a sense of how nice getting married wld be, with those sudden thoughts of marriage overwhelming me. Haha but it did not and I am still happy at my present life. But dun get me wrong, I was really happy at both occasion, just that these things are not for me at the moment.

At the ROM, the ceremony was simple, but really heartwarming. People who do not know each other can gather together to witness and bless the coming toghether of 2 persons. It was rather funny as Miss Candy as usual was blur and did not got ready the wedding bands till the ceremony was going on halfway and her relatives were like frantically searching for it while the solemniser went on and on... (yes, it was said on in mandarin, did not know what he was saying and it din sound right.) Oh and the solemniser did made us laugh when he said something. He started saying "before you two got married here todae, did you two ....." He paused for 5 secs, and during this 5 secs, all of us including the bride were like thinking, what has those things got to do with you. Everyone was laughing and thinking premarital sex has become such a common thing and it became his duty to remind us that it is not good. Also it occur to me that how can everyone be thinking of the same thing where he merely stop for 5 secs. Such dirty thoughts.... HAhaha.

Gina's baby is cute and I carried her for a while. Baby Giselle did made me think bout how having a baby can be so nice at times. But the key word is still at times. Take away late night waking up to feed the baby and crying and changing diapers and all other work, yes, babies are so adorable.
Tuesday, January 03, 2006
Its a brand new year! Had a so so countdown nearby my house with those media corp stars like Ou Xuan. HAha and the next day went to shop for my friend's ROM gift. Was pretty much fun and catchign up with old friends was simply great. We chose to drink chinese tea in a chinese restaurant this time and we certainly looked much older than before. We used to chat in cool coffee houses, but then nothing bad with getting in touch with the traditional roots of your culture. In fact, the tea seems to make you chat better.

Have a god sis 's baby 1st yr old birthdae and friend's marriage coming up together this Saturdae will make my Saturday super busy. With my girlfriend's birhtdae around the corner, I am really lost as to what to get for her.

Another thing is my resolution to go visit gyms so much more often (ok maybe I shd write I will start visint gyms). Haha for those who know me, its gonna get really hard. I mean so HARD. But nevertheless, I will TRY. Serious. I will try. Will post the moment I step into one since that long long long long time ago. You get the picture.

Life never fails to get at you when you are least expecting. So just relax and not think so much. Life simply happens when you are busy making other plans.
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